Pros: Cost of living, you can actually afford to buy a house here, the size makes it easy to get anywhere in the city within like 30 min, plenty of hobbies to get involved with around the city, and the affordability of the city means you can probably actually afford to engage in those hobbies.

Cons: That house you can afford to buy is probably 100 years old making maintenance way more expensive, the geography makes the roads pretty bad, depending on the hobby you might only have one place or group to enjoy it with which could be a problem if there's a falling out, and I've heard it echoed in other threads that dating here can be difficult compared to larger cities like NYC or Chicago which I've personally found to be true.