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FarLeftGoon t1_j1t896g wrote

Awwwn harsh, I’m a millennial and just wondering where there’s a lot of cool single woman , looking to build something. Los Angeles has dried up , and I need a change of scene. Someone said Syracuse, Ny was good

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FarLeftGoon t1_j1t8xlj wrote

L.As dried up meaning no one goes out because no one can afford the cost of living . So it’s just a bunch of rich boomers and everyone else struggling. My apartment building is almost empty . People leaving California to the Midwest and south

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ScratchMoore t1_j1t9t8y wrote

Well this dipshit is a troll, no question.

No posts for like 6 months, then you come back with this? From LA to Pittsburgh or Syracuse? Dafuq dude.

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HedgeRunner t1_j1tay45 wrote

Bruh, that doesn't matter. Even if a city has 70% women and 30% men (impossible but stating to make a point), the apps will have 25% men and 5% women (lmao.)

You dont have to believe me, just download Tinder, get an average looking female stock photo and watch the likes come in. Then do the same for men. Do your own research.

Here are some stats and info I've collected from dating threads that may be of help:

  • This subReddit only has 25% singles, so most people are already in a relationship. (400+ people poll I did)
  • It's harder for folks to date over 30s or late 20s because most Pittsburgh natives meet their significant other earlier and stick with them.
  • Do volunteering, join a sports league, do activities that you like are the most common answers. People believe those are better than apps.

From your history it doesn't look like you're from here and you're looking to see if there's a magic city that has amazing single women. Bruh, real talk, there is none. In any city, small, medium, or large, there are significant more men on apps. That's just how the world is. Dating is hard period these days and there is no magic cure or short cut or some special way to cheat the game.

My advice? Don't make it your life's focus. Do other things that are more important and if someone shows up in your life you like, ask them out, if not, keep going. And go to the gym lmao.

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Ok_Plane6153 t1_j1tbmy0 wrote

Ah gotcha. There’s a few people that go out in Pittsburgh but this is really a smaller city with a lot of separate areas and urban sprawl. To put in population perspective, Philly is 5x in size

What I’m really trying to say is…. I’ve been on 1 date in the 10 months I’ve lived here and go out often

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HedgeRunner t1_j1tc2ct wrote

Sure, I mean I met a ton of cool women here but that doesn't change the aggregate. Also if you already know you have good luck with women in Miami why do you want to come to Pittsburgh mate?

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