It's been reported a few places, but here's one:

https://www.providencejournal.com/story/lifestyle/2016/02/12/author-in-providence-it-can-be-tough-to-find-college-educated-mate/32519882007/

Part of his advice was literally to move haha. Just bringing it up since OP asked. Things may have shifted a bit with remote work, but probably not that much the East Coast is pretty tough for women seeking men.