and unsurprisingly, not interested at all in meeting people his own age but preferably 25 years younger...

certain types of men are just alarmingly consistent in the ways they fall short.

OP my man the apps are filled with scammers for you because you are exactly the sort of person they're looking for and they've made profiles designed to entice you, specifically (and they clearly are succeeding). I'm not gonna explain why I think that is but you should definitely put some thought of your own into it.