(posted elsewhere
by -Lorelei-)
Every Sunday there is a queer knitting group at Small Format
Cafe. I know you said no bar culture but there is a group I meet up with every
Monday at Moniker Brewery called "Queers and Beers".
It's a huge group and a lot of members don't drink. You can
find more. https://instagram.com/queersandbeersofri?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=

There is also a queer rock climbing group called
"Queers Who Climb". https://instagram.com/queers.who.climb?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=

and my favorite is "Queeraoke"
https://instagram.com/queeraokepvd?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=