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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaev06p wrote

Reply to comment by trees1nthewind in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele

In future I would plan to live in Germany anyways, and incase of breakup I could still stay there.

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trees1nthewind t1_jaev4td wrote

If you see yourself living there and that's a place of interest then no one can stop you

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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaewg7a wrote

So in conclusion I should go there?

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trees1nthewind t1_jaewpap wrote

Go if you are going more for your education. Of course being with your bf is a plus but shouldn't be the main reason. Also definitely consider being independent of him. Like living on your own, having your own friends, financially separated etc.

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trees1nthewind t1_jaewtev wrote

Also your 18, these are not the best years neither are they the only best years of your life

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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaexz55 wrote

I'd say the reason for going there would be 50/50 study and him. In there I would get other friends too of course but the problem with living on my own would be the living fees and all. I still wanna have freetime alongside studies and not spend it all on working. During university I have worked part-time alongside studying and it just is way too tireing.

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trees1nthewind t1_jaeylt6 wrote

How would you support yourself financially then? Rely on your parents on him? Honestly for me 50/50 is not good enough of a ratio.

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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaezlkn wrote

I don't know how I could support myself financially yet. And what do you mean by "Rely on your parents on him?" I don't understand the meaning of this sentence.

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trees1nthewind t1_jaezrca wrote

Rely on your parents or on him. Just misspelled a word.

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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaf0l1h wrote

I honestly don't know, at the same time I'd feel guilty at the fact how much my parents would have to pay for my university in South Korea

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trees1nthewind t1_jaf0sl7 wrote

So list out some pros and cons other than your bf and come back an reexamine whether you want to go.

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ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaf14gw wrote

I'd say going to Germany has more pros and less cons than staying in Korea. In Germany Could study with no tution fees and the education level there is good + I anyways plan to live there at some point in life.

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trees1nthewind t1_jaf1adj wrote

You make the judgement because you know your life best. At the end of the day whether you go or not it will be up to you. We're just here to give you some food for thought.

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