trees1nthewind t1_jaeylt6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:13 PM

Reply to comment by ThrowRaKokiele in Should I (18F) move out to my boyfriend's (18M) country or stay here? by ThrowRaKokiele

How would you support yourself financially then? Rely on your parents on him? Honestly for me 50/50 is not good enough of a ratio.

ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaezlkn wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:20 PM

I don't know how I could support myself financially yet. And what do you mean by "Rely on your parents on him?" I don't understand the meaning of this sentence.

trees1nthewind t1_jaezrca wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:21 PM

Rely on your parents or on him. Just misspelled a word.

ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaf0l1h wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:27 PM

I honestly don't know, at the same time I'd feel guilty at the fact how much my parents would have to pay for my university in South Korea

trees1nthewind t1_jaf0sl7 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:29 PM

So list out some pros and cons other than your bf and come back an reexamine whether you want to go.

ThrowRaKokiele OP t1_jaf14gw wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:31 PM

I'd say going to Germany has more pros and less cons than staying in Korea. In Germany Could study with no tution fees and the education level there is good + I anyways plan to live there at some point in life.

trees1nthewind t1_jaf1adj wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:32 PM

You make the judgement because you know your life best. At the end of the day whether you go or not it will be up to you. We're just here to give you some food for thought.