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razzledazzle626 t1_jadi2cu wrote

Hanging out with the opposite sex one on one? Not a problem. Hanging out with someone you had sex with one on one? Problem.

This is not appropriate.

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angradillo t1_jadieo0 wrote

Especially if both have a history of cheating.

If it quacks like a duck and looks like a duck, it's not a chicken, nu?

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urban_accountant t1_jadj9at wrote

I mean why would you date a person you poured your heart out to that then went and had sex with someone else. And then chose to be either you after she had some fun. Have some self respect and dump her.

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PeskyPenguin83 t1_jadkzv1 wrote

You asked her basically, so her response was, "go sleep with male friend to get it out of the way and then date you".

Like, right there is reason to block this person out of your life.

Now she goes for lunch with said guy?

Lol.

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childish_badda_bingo t1_jadno85 wrote

Dump her. This is violating a boundary that should be apparent and she knows it.

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Khazalex t1_jaevmt8 wrote

>After confessing my feelings for her, she hooked up a colleage the very next day

Come on...

I know you weren't dating but "Oh you let me know you had feelings for me? That's cool, lemme just go fuck this guy a minute then I'll get back to you" speaks fucking volumes to how little respect and thought she gave your "confession of feelings"

Never mind the rest of this dumpsterfire. History of cheating aswell? Come on man... just walk before you end up sinking more time into this.

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