ThrowAway22030202 OP t1_jaeh7l5 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:16 PM

Reply to comment by BinkoBankoBonko in My (M21) girlfriend (F20) blocked me after I helped her depression by ThrowAway22030202

Made me feel loved, appreciated the effort I made (until this year) and was there for me when no one else was.

BinkoBankoBonko t1_jaei46n wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:21 PM

Reason I asked is because a lot of times relationships with people with severe mental health issues ends up being incredibly one-sided. Her condition is not going to get better. If this kind of behavior makes you feel "loved" then you probably need to reevaluate. You feeling bad for her during this shows a great deal of compassion but, this is wildly unacceptable behavior as a partner.

A dog can make you feel loved and be there for you when no one else is.

She has acted exactly how she will act for probably her whole life. This will VERY likely be a cycle that she does with you until she dies. If you like it/can handle it.. great then stay with her. Your choice.

ThrowAway22030202 OP t1_jaeiho4 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:24 PM

I see what you saying, thank you :(

To be honest even if I wanted to stay with her (and I still love her for some reason so I do). She blocked me and refuses to unblock me or speak to me

BinkoBankoBonko t1_jaej0gm wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:27 PM

The weed will likely keep her in this mental state for her whole life if she continues to smoke. Seriously it prevents people from growing mentally as I've seen.

She will come back eventually/apologize and blame herself and her condition. Let her come back don't pursue her. You take her back.. it will absolutely happen again though. Like I said.. we make these choices. Choose your life.