Submitted by Capital-Beginning241 t3_11einkb in relationship_advice
I was pursued by a sweet, kind gentleman. After some quality time together I find out he is begging the ex who is toxic to marry him. He apologized and swears to block her and be committed to only me. "I'm beautiful, sweet, a good woman and he's so much happier with me around, I love you baby" etc... Well he's outta town and back on dating websites.. The universe saw fit he hit up a friend of mine... Yet, he misses me, wishes he was home with me etc.... Knowing the BS I've dealt with in my life, this is what he does. What kind of man does this to a woman who's been honest, kind, compassionate?!?! I fought hard to let my guard down and give him a chance. I felt he was a good egg..
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