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o0Ambrosia0o t1_jacdz4m wrote

Reply to comment by snailsniffers in Me (28f) can't keep living with my Husband (29m) like this anymore. by [deleted]

I think it might be that he doesn't see I'm suffering at all, and simply sees it as my job? I'm not sure anymore. :(

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snailsniffers t1_jacesmf wrote

Have a sit down with him, explain that the chores are not just your responsibility, that you're suffering. That you're literally sick right now and he should be stepping up.

Then you'll not be able to say he doesn't see it.

I am literally unemployed due to my mental health being so severe. I still support my SO where I am able to (with reasonable adjustments and understanding on worse days). His potential depression isn't an excuse.

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o0Ambrosia0o t1_jacezs8 wrote

Thank you so much for your suggestion, I'll definitely try this when I can.

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