Submitted by [deleted] t3_11eii4h in relationship_advice
AffectionateWheel386 t1_jaeqq9b wrote
Reply to comment by buon_natale in Hurt so bad the first time (f20 m21) by [deleted]
In regard to the hymen, it is a lot more complicated. You are absolutely correct, but it’s not as simple as you’re making it seem. Different people have them different sizes some Harden as they get older there’s all kinds of variables but you’re right it’s not as clear cut as I was always taught. There’s something else.
The first time vaginal sex can be uncomfortable and sometimes painful, but that’s absolutely normal and that is taken from a medical site. Some women may even bleed during the first time in sex. Which goes to my point, which is what this young woman was talking about which is the first time is usually painful for most women. I have never met a woman that said it wasn’t so you are very lucky and good for you .
Also, thank you because I lost my virginity so long ago I didn’t pay any attention and I had boys, so I never had to deal with it. So you learn something every day. But the home is a lot more complicated than you’re making it and it does stretch across from some women, but most women you’re right it doesn’t go all the way across the vagina. Which explains why you can use tampons most women, one and 200 count by the way thank you again.
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