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Hey self worth is hard to cultivate and easy to forget about. You can work on that single and/or with a guy who doesn't see you as a project he's working on in his spare time.

Wow! Ok, first, does he not know most men lose weight easily and most women do not? My mom jokingly complained that whenever she dieter, my dad lost weight. You work on your healthy lifestyle at your pace. Talk to a nutritionist if you can. You may have a food that you think is healthy but is sabotaging your weight loss goals... that's assuming YOU want to lose weight, not him.

Your bf has been ignoring you and wants to have sex with others. He is no longer your bf, he is now your ex-bf and current roommate. Find a new roommate, as your current one is toxic. He doesn't want sex with you, doesn't want to be celibate alongside you, just wants to bang others and have you smile? That is intentional cheating. Move out ASAP

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He doesn’t respect you. Let him go and bet he tries to come back. Whatever the case you can do better. You’re not a project you’re a person. This guy doesn’t want you he wants something he can show off. Objectification is a sleazy kind of relationship to have with anybody, much less the person you’d marry. He would most certainly trade you in for a newer model in a few years, or keep you around to get the groceries while he leases a new ride. Find somebody that wants to be with you as you are. Or let them find you. Either way let this fish go he stinks.