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Pane502 t1_jaew8ae wrote

Reply to comment by yowen2000 in [35M] My girlfriend’s [36F] texting behavior has changed, and Im not sure how to respond. by [deleted]

It is possible. That why I was thinking of asking to see her messages.. If she is too busy to text me I'm assuming she is too busy to text others.. I'm open to being wrong. It's just lately it seems like is more than “too busy”. It feel like more indifference.

Also I know for a fact she prefers to use FB on her phone and Messenger is her default texting app.

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yowen2000 t1_jaewnay wrote

Talk yourself off the ledge that is "I demand to invade your privacy" (look at her messages), your relationship will go nowhere good after that.

Maybe just see how the next few days go, if this new trend continues, ask her again why the change and see if you can push for a better explanation.

Also, her texting behavior aside, have you noticed any other problems in your relationship?

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Pane502 t1_jaex7ow wrote

This may be the way to go and I may be impatient and just want an answer now. The major issue I keep running into is feeling like she is indeed indifferent toward me...

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yowen2000 t1_jaexpdo wrote

It's been 2 days, and 36-year-old women do get busy with stuff.

Or something is really going on, but I imagine you'll find that out soon enough if it is.

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slimjim2019 t1_jaf4cmt wrote

dont do it dude. Have a talk about the lack of convo between you two.. Do not ask to see her texts. She will flip and there will be an argument. At least have some dignity and go thru her texts when she asleep lol

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