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Pane502 t1_jaewlb2 wrote

Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in [35M] My girlfriend’s [36F] texting behavior has changed, and Im not sure how to respond. by [deleted]

Again I'm not expecting texting all day! I want too know what's up with the behavior changed... I asked her alreadyand she just said busy. But this feels like more than just “busy”.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaewua6 wrote

So…asked and answered. If that’s not a sufficient reason for you then date someone else.

Busy doesn’t mean she can’t do whatever she wants in her free time. Maybe she has a friend in crisis that she’s chatting with. Maybe she just doesn’t have much to say during the day to you.

If you ask to look at her phone though, that’s nuts.

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Pane502 t1_jaexbvq wrote

But that would confirm for me what's going on.. Either I'm buts or something is up. And I'm dating to marry so I rather find out sooner than later if I need to move on.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaexl0e wrote

Getting on her phone? Just end it since you don’t trust her. Dating someone who is always looking for a problem and is insecure is exhausting.

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Pane502 t1_jaf1vmj wrote

All your advice seems to be break up.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaf1yjv wrote

Yes. She should break up with you if you ask to see her phone and harass her.

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Pane502 t1_jaf3etd wrote

You give terrible advice and should break up with your therapist.

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slimjim2019 t1_jaf4hc8 wrote

do you feel in your gut that she is messaging another guy?

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