yowen2000 t1_jaewnay wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:59 PM

Reply to comment by Pane502 in [35M] My girlfriend’s [36F] texting behavior has changed, and Im not sure how to respond. by [deleted]

Talk yourself off the ledge that is "I demand to invade your privacy" (look at her messages), your relationship will go nowhere good after that.

Maybe just see how the next few days go, if this new trend continues, ask her again why the change and see if you can push for a better explanation.

Also, her texting behavior aside, have you noticed any other problems in your relationship?

Pane502 t1_jaex7ow wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:03 PM

This may be the way to go and I may be impatient and just want an answer now. The major issue I keep running into is feeling like she is indeed indifferent toward me...

yowen2000 t1_jaexpdo wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:06 PM

It's been 2 days, and 36-year-old women do get busy with stuff.

Or something is really going on, but I imagine you'll find that out soon enough if it is.