Waste_Vegetable8974 t1_jaew7te wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:56 PM

Do you not do any kind of foreplay. Maybe startvthe conversation there and see if you can do the same things to a finish?

Stormy_Sol OP t1_jaewiu6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:58 PM

There is some but they are always bitterly short, at least for me. He feels he cannot last long when we'd do certain foreplay acts.

Waste_Vegetable8974 t1_jaex93w wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:03 PM

Hmm. I think that you have to get him to engage in a difficult conversation here and I'm afraid I don't know how you can start it. But you have to make him listen and understand that he's being very unfair in denying you personal satisfaction from your relationship. At least with the foreplay stuff you have a starting point as he already does that and should be willing to extend it for your benefit. Then take one very small step at a time into your new sexual world.