Stormy_Sol OP t1_jaewiu6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:58 PM

Reply to comment by Waste_Vegetable8974 in How can I (F33) help my boyfriend (M36) understand that s3x shouldn't always be about PIV? by Stormy_Sol

There is some but they are always bitterly short, at least for me. He feels he cannot last long when we'd do certain foreplay acts.

Waste_Vegetable8974 t1_jaex93w wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:03 PM

Hmm. I think that you have to get him to engage in a difficult conversation here and I'm afraid I don't know how you can start it. But you have to make him listen and understand that he's being very unfair in denying you personal satisfaction from your relationship. At least with the foreplay stuff you have a starting point as he already does that and should be willing to extend it for your benefit. Then take one very small step at a time into your new sexual world.