Submitted by Leather-Worry-7517 t3_11e43fr in relationship_advice
Basically the title. [TL;DR: GF(25F) blocks or threatens to block me (29F) when we fight]. Our relationship has been on/off for about 2 years. My gf (25F) blocks me or threatens to block me (29F) everytime we argue or have a fight or she feels hurt. I try apologizing if she feels hurt by something I've done. I know when to take responsibility for my own actions. I try to be productive and move forward, but she tell me "fuck you", "fuck off", "stop being a bitch", "I will block you", etc. It hurts every single time, it never hurts less.. it always just hurts. I've told her I don't appreciate her saying those things to me and it's immature calling me names and cussing at me. I tell her I understand if she's mad and hurt and wants space, she can verbalize it without being rude. She always put all the blame on me for things when I'm pretty sure it takes two. She never takes responsibility for anything and never apologizes to me. She's not in therapy, but I do go for myself. Because of our little disagreements, she wants to cancel us moving in together and almost cancel us being together. I fight for her and our relationship every day, but I'm starting to wonder why. I feel as if I'm being treated like shit by her. I feel like I did and said everything I could regarding her blocking me. I can only ask she not block me, but ultimately it's her choice to do it every time we fight. She will just delete me off everything and block me. Then re-add me and unblock me when she's not mad. I guess I'm to the point of seeking advice on reddit. Thanks in advance.
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