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VanMan32 t1_ja9mw00 wrote

Don't leave your art business. You aren't being selfish. You're being asked to put your life on hold until he finishes school. You're going to regret going more than staying.

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EvenMoreSpiders t1_ja9ngy0 wrote

I say stay and grow your business. Neither of you should give up on your passions to be together. Long distance can definitely be tough but there are so many ways to make it work in this day and age.

Let him go to school, stay where you are and try to make it work. Your alternatives will just lead to resentment down the road.

If your partner doesn't go for it then at least you both didn't sacrifice everything before finding out.

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