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Ohmigoshness t1_jaelyrr wrote

I went through this with my partner, I loved going out I was 21 when I met him so I was clubbing and just out all time. I would invite him but since he was older he was also done with the party part of his life. It didn't give us any problems and we were fine eventually a couple years later I didn't like going out all the time.

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area51sfailedproject OP t1_jaemgdf wrote

That’s sooo comforting to know 😅😅. I honestly thought it would break us up for some reason..

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nightowl2023 t1_jaenrwq wrote

It really depends on the people. "Clubbing" means different things to different people. For example, I would be totally find with my girlfriend going clubbing without me. I trust her, I know her interests, and I know she would never do something selfish in the name of "fun" because she is mature.

My ex-girlfriend I absolutely would not have been okay with her going clubbing. Because her definition of clubbing was booty shorts, getting high, or getting drunk. In addition to being addicted to attention.

And as you can imagine this is why we broke up.

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area51sfailedproject OP t1_jaenycr wrote

Oh that’s not a great combi no. I’m so sorry. But I’m happy for you that you found a trustable clubber now! :)

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