nightowl2023 t1_jaemzi6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:53 PM

Well, I think that you should just express your concerns and look for a middle ground.

Honestly, drugs are stupid. And you should stop telling yourself that you need to do drugs to live life or have fun. All drugs are going to do is take away your ability to think and most likely result in some person taking advantage of you. Not to mention the various potential impacts they can have on your health.

But going to festivals and drinking with you totally should be something he should do with you. Even attending a party every now and then should not be a big deal.

area51sfailedproject OP t1_jaeng5j wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:56 PM

I have done drugs a few times. Honestly it is not as amazing as people think. But I really wanted to do it because HE came up with the whole idea. I like a date to Sweden and watching the northern lights or just a stargazing date wayyy more than one night drugs, don’t get me wrong. But he just stuffed my mind with this one idea of us on a crazy night smoking a joint together or something 😂