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automator3000 t1_jaeekm6 wrote

>I feel like I’m on a ship heading straight for a rogue wave because my partner never takes accountability

Let's add to that that you aren't taking accountability either.

You've been watching your partner be a trainwreck for years. This isn't a recent change. She showed up on your doorstep claiming one thing and then proved to be soemthing, and then you brushed that off for five years.

Gosh, good luck getting out of this mess. Find some help and dig yourself out.

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Crafty_Train1497 OP t1_jaefb7f wrote

Yea I agree I beat myself up for that once I realized it too ! I’ve recently started taking accountability for my part which is why I’m determined to make a change and not play the fool anymore

It’s a little easier since I’ve healed to start planning action and executing but the down time gave me plenty of time to think and realize a lot I wasn’t noticing before .

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