Personally, I wouldn't keep around someone who's this cavalier about playing with fire. Why invite guys over to her apartment for drinks if they were already at a bar unless they wanted to do a little more than drink? Think about, dude.

>She told me that the guy kissed her but she didn't kiss back

Plus

>"I f**ked up, I kissed a guy".

Equals she lied to you.

Don't stay with a cheater that invites strange men beck to her place from the bar.

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she literally wrote to her friend "I kissed a guy". Thats the truth right there. If you cant get past this, plus the other things shes done to you, then end it. Dont waste time.

She admitted to it... she said it herself 'i kissed a guy"... someone who didnt kiss a guy would say "he kissed me and i moved away" not "i fucked upand kissed a guy" she lied and she put herself in a bad situation. Can you trust someone like that?

Depends on where he kissed her.