Submitted by ArsonIsFun69 t3_11dm7nf in relationship_advice
So I’ve been talking i guess to this guy for a little over a month and he keeps going back and forth between talking to me a lot and leaving me on delivered for 19 hours or something like that. When we do talk (not really that often tbh like once or twice a week) he sends me funny pictures and vids of him and his friends and obviously tries to impress me but when we aren’t talking its just really bland dry pics of his forehead or just black screens at night (on snap) I would ask him straight up what he wants but I’m terrified and not good at confrontation. But for some background, I’m in school and he does have a pretty busy work schedule where he can’t use his phone so maybe he’s just been really busy? (i could just be telling myself that to make me feel better abt the situation haha idk) I really like him so far but I have no clue what to do so if anyone has any advice that’d be cool lmao
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