[27F] wants to stay friends after ending things with me [25M]. She’s being weird?

Submitted by atdigiacomo t3_11emvr8 in relationship_advice

A girl and I were dating for a month and a half. She randomly ended things with me and said she wanted to be friends right now.

The next week we met up and talked about it having a positive conversation. She told me she was still into me. Had feelings for me. And that I was her type but she’s not ready for something (she moved her 4 months ago and she said she’s still trying to settle in). She even said she might reconsider this relationship when she feels ready. I told her I was fine with it and I’d rather keep her in my life than never see her, but I won’t wait for her. Felt this was needed especially since we see each other at the gym.

The first week was solid after that. Talked at the gym. Texted on and off. Then she abruptly stopped over that following weekend and she acts like we’re strangers when we see each other now.

It’s been 2 weeks since then and nothings changed. I need advice on how to proceed. Figured I’d let her do her thing but I feel like it’s effecting my workouts now since she’s doing her best to avoid eye contact and conversation. I almost want to text her and see how she’s doing with it all.

Has anyone been in a position like this before? All advice or thoughts welcome.

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Willofthesouth t1_jaexagz wrote

Sounds like either:

  1. she changed her mind and just isn't into you

  2. the other guy said yes.

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Warming_ t1_jaex66v wrote

Block and move on, childish antics are a waste of everyone's time.

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