My 19M boyfriend might be using me, 19F for my body.

Submitted by DesignerGovernment27 t3_11enlsf in relationship_advice

dating for almost 7 months (I known him for 2 years). We’ve created a beautiful and trusting relationship, tonight this has me in deep thoughts.

I was meant to be staying at his on thursday night, so I asked him and he wasn’t so sure as he really wanted to go to the gym and he just didn’t want me to stay. When I asked why he said

“How about I make you a deal?”

replied with “okay…”

“If u give me a detailed description of what we’re gonna do tomorrow and it makes me rlly horny I’ll see u.”

“Bcs sex is ur main selling point.”

After that I just didn’t know what to say or do, what do I do? Was this just a misuse of words? I genuinely hope he’s not using me for this stuff… he’s my first love.

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hisimpendingbaldness t1_jaf1j4a wrote

Yeah, thats a pretty big red flag, sorry. Thats a make him clarify or dump his ass

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lorde_vick t1_jaf2jsn wrote

Sex is your main selling point?

So you have no personality? No goals or ambition??

Dump him 😷

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