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Boredandsleeps t1_jadukvc wrote

You guys moved too quickly, 4 months is not enough time to really get to know eachother, you both could go to couples therapy but that can only get you so far. Does your partner know about the medication you take and the side effects it has on you?

You also mentioned that she's on the spectrum but hasn't been diagnosed by a professional? Does she have any plans to see one to get a proper diagnosis?

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myredhuntingcap OP t1_jaf1b6i wrote

Moving in together too quickly may be true, but I do want to make the efforts to improve as a partner because I care.

She knows about the side effects, but I don’t think they realize it may take some compromising when I’m feeling very little etc.

I have brought up her going to get a diagnosis but they don’t want to because it may be expensive and they believe they can cope on their own. Hard for me to push any further on this since it’s up to them. Thanks for the advice!

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