Moving in together too quickly may be true, but I do want to make the efforts to improve as a partner because I care.

She knows about the side effects, but I don’t think they realize it may take some compromising when I’m feeling very little etc.

I have brought up her going to get a diagnosis but they don’t want to because it may be expensive and they believe they can cope on their own. Hard for me to push any further on this since it’s up to them. Thanks for the advice!