sugarmag13 t1_jade7df wrote on February 28, 2023 at 5:09 PM

STOP talking about your issues with people.

IT doesnt make it ok because you told her that you spoke to all these people. Trying to use that as a justification is ridiculous. You want a compromise, stop talking to everyone she knows about your issues.

Get a counselor if you want to talk about her.

It's so impossible for me to believe that you can not see an issue here. Almost narcissistic.

BoringAd2211 t1_jadfuhq wrote on February 28, 2023 at 5:19 PM

Help me understand. Spell it out to me why it's such an issue. I'm clearly missing something.

pl487 t1_jadhwgv wrote on February 28, 2023 at 5:32 PM

It affects how people she knows see her. Your parents, for example, will always have the issues you discussed with them in their head when they interact with her, and she knows they do, and they know that she knows.

sugarmag13 t1_jadgjog wrote on February 28, 2023 at 5:23 PM

Because it is your private issues with your wife. This is something between you and her. She doesn't want her business all over town with people knowing what's going on behind closed doors.

Think of it this way, if you couldn't have sex with her because your penis didn't work, would you want her sharing it with anyone who would listen?

Maybe that way you can understand

If not you are being purposely obtuse.