UsuallyWrite2 t1_jadejr3 wrote
Why do you keep telling her? Are you telling her that so and so thinks she’s wrong or something? I just can’t imagine why you’d be bringing up these discussions to begin with.
It’s normal for people to discuss their personal life with their friends and family.
What is her actual issue with it? Does she feel like she’s being painted in a bad light?
BoringAd2211 t1_jadgy74 wrote
The first time, I told her because I had obtained different opinions and came to her with them. She assumed that I was trying to get consensus on my side, but I didn't. I'm an open book, almost always have been. I was an open book with her when we were friends before all that. This is the first time the issue ever came up between us.
The issue is that she's worried I'm talking bad about her. It stems from trauma from her ex
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