The first time, I told her because I had obtained different opinions and came to her with them. She assumed that I was trying to get consensus on my side, but I didn't. I'm an open book, almost always have been. I was an open book with her when we were friends before all that. This is the first time the issue ever came up between us.

The issue is that she's worried I'm talking bad about her. It stems from trauma from her ex