Submitted by ADHD_BunnyMinx t3_11elzcc in relationship_advice
I (F26) married my husband (M27) last year. Right around our marriage his mother became more devout in her religion(F50's). She had been a lady who didn't mind drinking alcohol once in a while, enjoyed music and concerts, history, movies and tv shows, used to smoke weed and curse like a sailor. Now she reads the bible and everything is evil. Everything. Music, tv, movies, even has issues with history now unless it's history of the bible.
I understand that people can make choices for themselves and I'm not having an issue with that really (I do miss how close we were before, we aren't as close because everything I talk about is evil.). My issue is that she will tell me that my religion is evil and sorcery and she doesn't want my religious things visible to her, ever. We had planned on trying to buy a house the 4 of us, but now I don't want to. My husband says it's the best way for us to get on our feet and save money for a house in the future. I don't want to live with her period now. I still love her but I am not going to shove myself into a closet to make her happy. I don't know what to do. I've thought about a lot. Just sucking it up and shoving myself into a box and deal with it, let my husband move in with them and I figure something out for myself, or I leave for my own happiness. I dont know how to navigate this.
UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaeswgz wrote
Don’t move in with her. You’ll be miserable. And since your husband can’t stand up to his mother, he’s not going to be backing you up.