If I’m being totally honest I’m not a fan of being intoxicated while my partner isn’t there regardless of the situation. That’s me tho. Being intoxicated has ruined peoples happy relationships due to misguided mistakes. I think if the only thing you can do with your friends is go to a bar and club then you aren’t ready for a relationship.

I’ll never force anyone to do anything but I do have a zero tolerance policy for indiscretion. Drunken kiss. Gone. Accidentally slept in the same bed but didn’t do anything. Gone. No conversation or closure just moving on with my life.