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BeltalowdaOPA22 t1_ja480u6 wrote

How long have you been dating? Can you afford to live with him and save money? If you live with him, will you still be able to get to your job with no car?

If you live with him and you break up, will you be able to leave? Will you have somewhere to go if things get bad?

Do not trap yourself in a situation you can't get out of. Its better to work to be independent than to live with someone just to get away from your parents.

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Snakewarrior04 t1_ja496kt wrote

We've been dating for several months. Now obviously I wanna give it some time and save up a bit for food, transportation, clothes etc, and graduate school before moving. I also have other family to stay with if things backfire.

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FiFi2789 t1_ja4rc9p wrote

Less than a year to a year and a half is too soon to move in with someone. 'several months' is wayyyyy too soon.

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SmileSong t1_ja47km7 wrote

If I like him why not. If you split rent he can save more

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