It is my pleasure to be helpful but please remember it's all just my opinion and I'm just a random guy on the internet. You have to go with your gut on things and make your judgements as best as you can in the end regardless of what anyone else says.

It's easier to bail out of a relationship before marriage than it is after, so always be cautious and take care of yourself first by listening to your gut. The universe is always trying to guide you as long as you are willing to listen. Good luck with everything and take care of yourself.