Winter-Travel5749 t1_jaemi95 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:50 PM

Has this always been LD or have you met in person? People who are financially irresponsible ask out those who are financially responsible in order to maintain their lifestyle. She found you. It’s easy not to care when someone else is paying the bills. You are at very different levels of maturity and marrying her without a solid agreement about finances moving forward would be a huge mistake..also sounds like if you marry her that her mom may begin being dependent on you as well. Be careful. 🚩🚩🚩

EcstaticTax6811 OP t1_jaenid1 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:56 PM

We basically slept in the same house for 3 months and we dating before we became long distance. But we were both broke and young. But she was always aware of my mindset before I started making money. And I had a job back when I was 17

Winter-Travel5749 t1_jaeoat6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:01 PM

Honestly, you sound like a great “catch”. Don’t settle. If your gut is telling you marriage to this person is bad, trust it.