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AffectionateWheel386 t1_jae0unp wrote

She’s a little caddy, a little young, and a little competitive. All of her opinions of oh, it’s impossible to buy a house. No no it’s not people do it every day. But then you know that just don’t let her affect you she’s young and she’s basing it also on her own stuff like my stuff is great we’re building a camper so we can travel. It’s just immaturity and maybe competitiveness. It would be like you saying well you’re just young right now when you get older, you’ll understand the value of the house. She’s talking to you like that but from her perspective.

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ThiccAssHiker t1_jae1jrp wrote

Maybe I didn't explain correctly, but she's the older one in the friendship. I'm 26, and she is 36.

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AffectionateWheel386 t1_jae24ni wrote

Well, I didn’t get that, but she’s still a little catty without all of the other stuff. You’re just the more mature one. I still think it may be about her own self-esteem and competitiveness also. Like somehow you’re gonna outshine her. It’s actually really negative.

I would have a talk with her though I don’t know that she’s gonna completely understand or admit where she’s coming from. Since your friend she might though, and it’s worth it.

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