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She’s a little caddy, a little young, and a little competitive. All of her opinions of oh, it’s impossible to buy a house. No no it’s not people do it every day. But then you know that just don’t let her affect you she’s young and she’s basing it also on her own stuff like my stuff is great we’re building a camper so we can travel. It’s just immaturity and maybe competitiveness. It would be like you saying well you’re just young right now when you get older, you’ll understand the value of the house. She’s talking to you like that but from her perspective.

I think its a little bit of wanting to prop herself up a bit more than take you down. She is taking a very unconventional route of wanting to build a mobile camping van for her living space. People are going to either consciously or subconsciously judge her for this choice. So what she is effectively doing is telling you all the great reasons she is doing this and why what she is choosing to do "makes sense". No one is going to question you wanting to buy a house. Her route on the other hand....

I'm again only basing this on one conversation alone, so it's kind of hard to see a pattern. But from my perspective that's what it seems like.

Those did not seem like passive-aggressive jabs to me. I think maybe you're being a little too sensitive.