Oh it’s been on my mind for a few months (even though we always had these problems I never really saw how bad it was until we had a kid). I am extremely non confrontational (to a fault) and have a history of minimizing my feelings/experiences, which is why I wanted to lay it out here to see if there was anything to what I was feeling. Not to mention the logistics of trying to figure out where I would go, custody, finances, having no idea how he would react if I did leave, etc etc