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BriefHorror t1_ja64ajt wrote

He told you he's going to put you into debt to fund his family and your first instinct is not to divorce him? You had kids therefore they come before your feelings and right now your husband is sabotaging their future. Also the dynamic between you is what your children will model in their future relationships. Either letting their partner walk all over them or walking all over their partner and being someone you are ashamed of.

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Elegant-Poet-9194 OP t1_ja69yy0 wrote

You’re right which is what leaves me in a tough spot because we used to be doing fine but now it’s all these arguments over his family. Thank you for being blunt with me

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BriefHorror t1_ja6i1sq wrote

Sometimes its necessary. Use that thought to forge ahead with what you need to do. I'm happy to see it got through to you.

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