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dwells2301 t1_jadq0ki wrote

Break up with him. He deserves better.

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zeizkal t1_jadpzq8 wrote

Break up, you cant be blamed if you're not attracted to a person. Now I wouldnt call him ugly or say that why because thats just a horrible thing to do, but you're both better off not being together if one of you isnt happy.

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skirtymagic t1_jadq41w wrote

Hon, why are you stressing? It's not a good fit. Cut the boy loose and find someone else.

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ThrowRA62829191 t1_jadqb4c wrote

Because I do love him I just don't really find him "attractive" anymore

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skirtymagic t1_jadqqs0 wrote

It's okay to love somebody and know that they aren't the right fit for you. Don't you think he deserves to move on and find someone who is attracted to him?

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pourthebubbly t1_jadqsr9 wrote

You’re only 5 months in and are feeling embarrassed by him. That’s only going to build. No point in dragging it out.

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pourthebubbly t1_jadqusa wrote

You’re only 5 months in and are already feeling embarrassed by him. That’s only going to build. No point in dragging it out.

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asbestoswasframed t1_jadr4ar wrote

You're 19 - go date someone else. When you feel like they're not the one, date someone else.

As Jake in Adventure Time said, romantic partners "is like horses, when you fall down, it's important you get back up again...on a different horse."

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aporter0131 t1_jadrme9 wrote

Break up. You’re 19 years old. Been with this dude a few months. What other options are realistic

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ThrowRA62829191 t1_jads5fw wrote

I'm worried that he'll be very upset though. I want to spare his feelings but I suppose that's selfish.

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Dont139 t1_jadyb29 wrote

Do you think it's better for him to stay with someone that isn't attracted to him? One day he will know. Ans then how will he feel knowing you felt that way about him?

Break up.

Just tell him "i'm not happy. I like you a lot as a person, you are truly a great person, but i can sense, feel deep down this isn't the right fit for me. I truly wish you well"

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aporter0131 t1_jadzjmq wrote

Sometimes you gotta rip it off like a bandaid and just do it. Won't be the last time in your life you have to go about something this way. Otherwise you're just wasting yours and his time.

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