Submitted by [deleted] t3_11dkt3q in relationship_advice
ionlyreadtitle t1_ja97kmc wrote
What?
What exactly do you think the definition of boyfriend/girlfriend means?
And what is the definition of commit to you?
If you say you are boyfriend and girlfriend, then you are committed to each other.
If you are not committed. Then you are just penpals.
-NP7- t1_ja97xpi wrote
committed as in engaged
ionlyreadtitle t1_ja984a1 wrote
How many times have you actually met her in person?
-NP7- t1_ja986jk wrote
like 10+ and have met families
ionlyreadtitle t1_ja98d25 wrote
10 times in 2 years?
It's definitely not time to get engaged.
gordonf23 t1_ja98d4w wrote
Don't get engaged until you've lived with her for a least a year.
-NP7- t1_ja98pwg wrote
I’m in a indian culture where couples don’t live together unless committed unfortunately
gordonf23 t1_ja98w7p wrote
Well you certainly shouldn't get engaged if you've been apart for 2 years long distance. Live closer and spend a LOT more time in person with her before getting engaged.
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