-NP7- t1_ja97xpi wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:49 PM

Reply to comment by ionlyreadtitle in 23F GF wants me 24m to commit after 2 years long distance relationship by [deleted]

committed as in engaged

ionlyreadtitle t1_ja984a1 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:51 PM

How many times have you actually met her in person?

-NP7- t1_ja986jk wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:51 PM

like 10+ and have met families

ionlyreadtitle t1_ja98d25 wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:52 PM

10 times in 2 years?

It's definitely not time to get engaged.

gordonf23 t1_ja98d4w wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:52 PM

Don't get engaged until you've lived with her for a least a year.

-NP7- t1_ja98pwg wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:54 PM

I’m in a indian culture where couples don’t live together unless committed unfortunately

gordonf23 t1_ja98w7p wrote on February 27, 2023 at 7:55 PM

Well you certainly shouldn't get engaged if you've been apart for 2 years long distance. Live closer and spend a LOT more time in person with her before getting engaged.