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KillerKittenInPJs OP t1_jaevag2 wrote

Reply to comment by Winter-Travel5749 in 44 f wants to reconnect with 38 m coworker of 1 year by KillerKittenInPJs

What in my post makes you think I’m expecting this person to fill a void?

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Winter-Travel5749 t1_jaevmi9 wrote

Because if were happy and fulfilled with your current life I doubt that you would be so nostalgic and be looking up people from a decade ago. I could be wrong.

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KillerKittenInPJs OP t1_jaevsid wrote

Interesting. So the only reason I would want to reach out to someone I used to like is for them to “fix” me or my life.

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Winter-Travel5749 t1_jaey9ip wrote

I didn’t say you needed “fixing”. I just know from experience that you can’t move backward in time and the answers to happiness lie in the present (and sometimes the future) but not the past. You’re not the same person you were 10 years ago and neither is he. But if your curious and need to “scratch that itch” then write to him on FB. Or find him on Instagram and write to him. Ask him what’s new in his life and take it from there. If it turns out to be more than just a diversion from the present, let us know. Do what you have to do. I wish you luck.

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