tickleyourfanny t1_jaeh8l0 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:16 PM

>I have pushed him away a bunch due to childhood trauma creating it difficult for me to feel safe with trust in relationships.

how about you work on yourself for awhile? you have to accept you are in a situation ship of your own making.

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaehdrj wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:17 PM

Work on myself by myself?

tickleyourfanny t1_jaeho7g wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:18 PM

I hear they have things called 'therapists' that can help..might just be a rumor though. I hear they can help with all this past trauma. again, might just be a rumor generated by social media

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaei71c wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:22 PM

I live with my abuser and have seemed professional help. On top of that due to my means; I have no way to leave my current living situation. I’m surviving currently.

tickleyourfanny t1_jaeis5h wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:26 PM

get a jobby job and move out..Certainly sounds you have more problems than just some other guy, you are pushing away, that you need to focus on first.

beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaejcay wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:29 PM

Working on it. My abuser put me 10k in debt, micromanages my life, and so on. The first out I find I’m going to take.