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Happy-Nose-111 t1_jae9l94 wrote

man, the "what would other men think when they see us together" part is really gross, to be honest. do a favor for her and break up.

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ThrowRAPoloDolo OP t1_jae9ofz wrote

Why do you think it’s wrong to think that?

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campbell317704 t1_jaenb4w wrote

Not the person you asked but was also grossed out by that part of your OP. My reason is wondering why you're so concerned what other straight men are thinking when you're supposed to be into women. Why the need to posture or have some kind of pristine Madonna on your arm to show off to other men rather than a partner that you value and values you in return being the main point of your relationship? She deserves someone who values her for her, not someone who's concerned with the optics of her having had the audacity to exist before you came along and having already been betrayed by one of the TWO men that she's trusted with that level of physical intimacy.

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Happy-Nose-111 t1_jaeo5ew wrote

You are depriciating her with what other man might think, which is really your own though’s projection. She had casual sex with men and suddenly she is disgusting and not worthy of becoming your wife, and anybody who ‘d marry her must be a loser. Absolute rubbish. …You had your fair share of fun but you are a catch to marry, right?!

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