AffectionateBite3827 t1_jaeybp0 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:11 PM

Does she know this isn’t like borrowing a sweater? You would have to undergo a lot of medical tests and procedures that cost money. Does your mom have the funds to finance this?

And not to be awful but she doesn’t need another baby at 50. 🤷‍♀️

You can’t stop her from asking repeatedly but you can tell her “If you continue to ask, I will block you/leave/hang up/not respond. You asked, and I answered. It’s no.” Then stick to your guns. She will either learn or lose what relationship she has with you. Her choice.

Also the idea that this baby is genetically yours and your STEPDAD’s is 😳🤢 She is out of her mind.

ambs782 OP t1_jaeywr8 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:15 PM

YES to all of this. At one point in the texts she was even like “technically I gave you the eggs you have” and “you can pick the gender yourself”

Shit is absolutely wild and I am convinced she’s not in her right mind rn.

AffectionateBite3827 t1_jaezof6 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:21 PM

She also gave you your limbs does she want one of those back? Like wtf. Nice try with the “you can choose the gender.” What a generous offer!

She’s probably spiraling about aging out of her fertile years, keeping her husband locked down (although he doesn’t sound like a prize), and the idea that she can “do it right” this time. Although given how she’s behaving I don’t see her as more mature than anyone on Teen Mom.

She’s going to keep pushing so please feel free to ignore her and any flying monkeys she sends to you.