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herdingcats2020 t1_jadki40 wrote

That seems like a good bit of an overreaction if just that comment on the photo and falling asleep when she asked for space. All I can think is just apologize again that you're sorry your comment upset her and that you'd been drinking and didn't mean to fall asleep. That you just wanted to give her space until she was ready to talk. That you're sober now and would really like to talk to her. That you love her. Then just give her space maybe. Unless you left a lot out somehow I personally don't see how it got blown up but who knows.

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offbrandbarbie t1_jadeibk wrote

I don’t understand this. I feel like important context is missing

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daddycumass t1_jadeo3a wrote

I’m sorry I’m in a bit of a head space, what context do you need?

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offbrandbarbie t1_jadetk7 wrote

What was the argument even over? It seems like you’re skipping over the important parts. What picture did you say was chaotic? Why did it bother her?

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daddycumass t1_jadfc2i wrote

The argument was mostly her being upset I fell asleep whenever she was upset in the other room, she said she wants someone who will be more comforting whenever she’s ready for them to be and not someone who will fall asleep. And it was just an old picture of her in her mom’s old apartment, it bothered her so much because she’s very sensitive to that subject and doesn’t like to invite energies into her life and she said that’s what I did

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angradillo t1_jadevds wrote

Doesn't make much sense. Something is missing here.

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Flashleyredneck t1_jadhfy1 wrote

What? This doesn’t have any info as to what happened. You told us: Girlfriend didn’t like a photo. You fell asleep. She packed her shit and left.

Wat?

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Zandarino t1_jadij1o wrote

Just hang in there and be nice and understanding, all you did was fall asleep because of the wine. Doubtful she will break up over it. Next time be there for her to talk to. (And avoid referencing that time in her life)

Unfortunately being a bf (or husband) can also mean also being a part-time therapist.

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