Submitted by ainana7777 t3_11e1xio in relationship_advice
Hi, I'm in need of advice. There's this guy I met six years ago. Prior to the pandemic, we started going out with friends. One of my friends (33f) actually had a crush on him, even though they are closer in age, they didn't end up together. We have one gay friend who would always get jealous or tease us to make our other friend feel better.
This guy and I are actually very into each other. feel like when a guy likes you, you don't have to ask anyone because they will just show you, and you'll see and feel it! We text each other every day, and sometimes he calls. We make fun of friends or other people together and then stare and laugh at each other sometimes, and only the two of us understand.
Then, elders from our church told him indirectly that our age difference is too big. One day, he stopped talking to me, he just didn't reply, and he became very cold. He used to give me small, meaningful gifts, but then he stopped. We haven't talked for almost five months now, and I feel like I'm going crazy! Should I tell him how I feel? I miss him so much, and I wouldn't want to lose him. I am sure no other new girl is involved. I was worried he took the advice of the elders from our church!
I don't see anything wrong with two adults falling inlove? Why does other people always have to interfere. Any guys here experienced this? Why would you suddenly just stop messaging a girl after an advice? Doesnt make sense to me. He also stopped coming to my house to visit! I just want him to talk to my dad again. All the memories makes me feel so sad
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